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It’s surprising—and often disheartening—how easily some people forget what you’ve done for them, or how carelessly they say things that cut deep. In moments like these, it’s hard not to lose faith in others. I know it might sound like I’m painting everyone with the same brush, or letting a few narrow-minded individuals get under my skin, but the truth is, it’s difficult not to feel that way when you’re hurt or disappointed.

I’ve always made an effort to think of others, to offer help where I could, and to be someone people could rely on. But lately, I find myself asking: Why should I keep giving when it so often goes unnoticed—or worse, taken for granted? Maybe I’ve been looking at things the wrong way. Maybe it’s time to shift my focus.

Right now, my family is my priority. They come first, and I know we’re all facing some tough decisions about what lies ahead. It’s forcing me to reevaluate my role, my energy, and where I choose to invest it. Perhaps it’s not selfish to put myself and my loved ones first—it might just be necessary. Life has a way of pushing us to these crossroads, and sometimes, stepping back from the noise and choosing what’s right for us is the most important thing we can do.